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Henry & Louise (Grimm) Hefty

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Henry & Louise (Grimm) Hefty
A photo of my great uncle Henry Hefty with Louise Grimm Hefty, Stillwater, MN. 1915 wedding.
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Lovely sophisticated 1915 wedding photo of Henry & Louise (Grimm) Hefty.
Photo of Betty Appleton Betty Appleton
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06/14/2016
Very nice photo. Notice his shoes.
Photo of Christopher Greyfeather Christopher Greyfeather
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06/14/2016
They look so in love
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06/14/2016
Being sarcastic, right ??
Photo of Christopher Greyfeather Christopher Greyfeather
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06/14/2016
Yes.. they look like they were unhappy in the picture.
I suppose, often times marriage was about convenience and not necessarily love.
I enjoy looking at photos from the past like that. Almost like a trip back in time...
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06/14/2016
Lots of reasons people didn't smile! Took along time to take the damn picture. Life was hard, not much frivolity. People equated laughing or smiling with mental illness. Marriage was a serious business!
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06/14/2016
Marriage is still a "Serious" Business!!--David.
Photo of Betty Hitchcock Betty Hitchcock
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06/14/2016
Beautiful....but smile.
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06/14/2016
Why do they look so happy?
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06/14/2016
People didn't smile in photos then but he does look as though he'd rather be elsewhere.
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06/14/2016
I didn't say a word Terry Epperson Simeroth about you being a brides maid. Nope not a word.
Photo of Terry Epperson Simeroth Terry Epperson Simeroth
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06/14/2016
🐐 This is an old goat, but I'm not saying a word about you being one. Nope not a word. 👅
Wedding portraits were solemn occasions...and, of course, even back then, there were people who had resting b**** faces! LOL!
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I'd venture their solemn looks might be from what a risky venture they were entering into. They probably only know each other through "courting," and have never had sex. Heck, she probably isn't even for sure what's going to happen to her on her wedding night. Women frequently died in childbirth, and if she survived a lot of times the babies she risk her life to give birth to didn't make it to their 5th birthday. And that man sitting next to her - he's 100% responsible for her, their children and their financial well-being. If he turns out to be a ne'er do well, the aforementioned suffer with little recourse. I'd be pretty somber too if that what i was facing.
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06/15/2016
Agree!
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06/14/2016
She looks a little younger than the groom ,it was probably an arranged marriage hence the solemn face on the bride ? 👰🎩
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06/14/2016
My grandparents....
Photo of Lee Ann Forester Train Lee Ann Forester Train
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06/14/2016
Beautiful! Your so lucky to have this photo!
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06/14/2016
I know....my family was so good about saving, photos....
Photo of Connie C Morgan Connie C Morgan
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06/14/2016
Neither looks too happy!
Photo of June Slater Cunningham June Slater Cunningham
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06/14/2016
her expression seems to say "well, that's done "...his is "oh c***, what did I do ??"
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06/14/2016
Love the wedding dress and the flowers.
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He looks like he could be her father
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06/14/2016
Life was hard and it wasnt until later that Photographers relized they could cox people with words sort of like cheeze!
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06/14/2016
Handsome couple!! I like the portrait !
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06/14/2016
I have heard that it was necessary to remain still for a minute or more to take photos then. So generally it was easier to hold a regular face expression then than to hold a smile--thus the rather bored look.
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06/14/2016
Yes, you can see it in some of the photos where the children couldn't keep quite still enough.
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06/14/2016
That's a beautiful wedding gown really lovely
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06/14/2016
gorgeous, and a handsome couple indeed.
Photo of Linda Stewart Linda Stewart
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06/14/2016
Lovely gown, she is dressed very well, she is much younger then the groom. Maybe a second marriage for him.. He may have had children and needed a wife. I hope he had more humor then it looks like. I hope they were compatible and happy in life..
Photo of Sandra Goulette Sandra Goulette
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06/14/2016
Great photo.....
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Lovely.. but they look grim too.. not just the name.. beautifully dressed..
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06/14/2016
very nice
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06/14/2016
Beautiful
I don't think she's all that much younger. His hair is fair, not grey. Besides, men usually married at an older age because they needed to be established in a job or profession and able to afford to support a wife and the children as they arrived. My mother was 16 when she married my dad; he was 24 and had already been working for Mack Trucks since he was 15 years old.

And, when I clicked on the photo and looked at the larger versions, I could see her mouth did have a slight turn-up at the corners. Neither of them looked quite as solemn on closer inspection. And maybe his shoes pinched, his collar was tight, and they were both tired from a day of relatives and friends, crowds, and having to smile and be the center of attention.

I think it might be too easy to read into people's expressions what we think nowadays. People then had a rather different outlook about marriage than we do now.
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06/14/2016
Making a snap judgment from a sliver of time is erroneous at best.
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Photos in this era were considered to be on the same level as a painted portrait. People did not and most still do not when having a portrait made for posterity.
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06/14/2016
. . .in some early photo studios, the photographer employed metal stands, w/ holder that held the "model's head" in place,,,to prevent ANY movement......often blamed on less than "smiley" expressions.
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06/14/2016
Not what you could call a happy couple!
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06/15/2016
He doesn't look very happy. Wonder if it was a shotgun wedding, lol! No seriously the bride looks beatuiful and he looks very dapper in his suit and very fashionable boots. I know that they had to keep still but i'm not sure if they still used the metal stands then , i know they did in Victorian times. Hope they had a very happy life together and he survived the 1st world War.
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06/15/2016
Wow, they look ecstatic with joy on their wedding day.
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06/15/2016
Dresses back then were incredible. Especially considering zero technology
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06/15/2016
His shoes are rad!
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06/15/2016
Isn't she just beautiful? Look at that gorgeous dress and veil and those lovely flowers. Nothing compares today.
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06/15/2016
I know we have some Grimm relatives down my father's side of the family. Interesting picture.
Louise Grimm Hefty's parents lived in Minneapolis. Her father was Paul Grimm and I think had something to do with the brewery business. Her mother was Teresa Guegel Grimm. Louise had two brothers Joseph and Albert.
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06/15/2016
Do you know their ethnic background at all? I know we have traced back my great grandmother's side to the brothers Grimm. I have a couple of their books also.
Dana Cassley I know Paul Grimm was born in Germany in 1861 but that's about all I know. I do have over 100 photos from Henry and Louise that I'm sure include some from her Grimm and Guegel family but they're mostly unidentified.
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06/16/2016
That is awesome. I have been wanting to do some more digging myself there is just not enough hours in the day.
This is a photo of my great uncle Henry Hefty and his wife Louise Grimm Hefty. Uncle Henry was 37 in this photo and Aunt Louise was 29. My family and I visited them every summer throughout the 1950s and early 1960s. They lived on a farm outside of Stillwater, MN. They were married almost 50 years when Uncle Henry died in 1964 and Aunt Louise a year later. They never had any children but always seemed very devoted to each other.
This is a photo of my great uncle Henry Hefty and his wife Louise Grimm Hefty. Uncle Henry was 37 and Aunt Louise was 29 on their wedding day. First marriage for both. They lived on a farm outside of Stillwater, MN My family and I visited them every summer throughout the 1950s and early 1960s. Uncle Henry died in 1964 and Aunt Louise a year later. They never had children but always seemed very devoted to each other.
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06/15/2016
Why is it, in so many pictures, the folks weren't smiling?
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06/15/2016
I would love to see this in color. The bride is beautiful.
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06/16/2016
Love these old photos, they talk !
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06/16/2016
A very attractive couple ! Her dress is lovely and he looks dapper in his suite . Really like his shoes !
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06/17/2016
Beautiful picture. I also was told that life was hard, and people did not think it was proper to smile, plus the photographer did not tell them to smile. (According to my mother who was born in 1910 and died in 2005.)
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02/21/2017
They always looked so grim in those days!
That's funny that you say that because her maiden name was GRIMM. Henry was 8 years older than Louise. This was my photo originally
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Louise (Grimm) Hefty
Louise (Grimm) Hefty was born on April 10, 1886 in Minnesota United States, and died at age 79 years old on July 27, 1965 in Washington County. Family, friend, or fan, this family history biography is for you to remember Louise (Grimm) Hefty.
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Henry Hefty
Henry Hefty was born on May 17, 1878 in Stillwater, Washington County, Minnesota United States, and died at age 85 years old on January 6, 1964 in Stillwater. Family, friend, or fan, this family history biography is for you to remember Henry Hefty.
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