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Dolores Vallelonga 1932 - 1999

Dolores A. (Venere) Vallelonga of Paramus, Bergen County, NJ was born on June 25, 1932 in Emerson, and died at age 66 years old on February 17, 1999 in New York, New York. Dolores Vallelonga was buried at Maryrest Cemetery 770 Darlington Ave, in Mahwah, NJ.
Dolores A. (Venere) Vallelonga
Paramus, Bergen County, NJ 07652
June 25, 1932
Emerson, Bergen County, New Jersey, United States
February 17, 1999
New York, New York, United States
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  • Introduction

    Dolores Veneri was born in Emerson, Bergen County, New Jersey, to Anthony Venere and Anna Venere. She grew up in New York, Bronx, in the 1940s, alongside her older brother, John, and younger brother, Louis. On June 28th, 1958, Dolores married the now-famous Frank "Tony Lip" Anthony Vallelonga (1930 - 2013) in Mount Vernon, New York. They had two sons, Frank Vallelonga Jr. and Nicholas Vallelonga. Her husband, "Tony Lip," gained fame as an actor, particularly for his portrayal of "Carmine Lupertazzi" in the TV series "The Sopranos" from 2001 to 2007. Originally from an Italian family but an American citizen, he served in the United States Army stationed in Germany during the years of military occupation. Tony Lip made his acting debut in 1970 with the movie "The Godfather" and went on to appear in several successful films such as "Raging Bull" and "Goodfellas" directed by Martin Scorsese, "Year of the Dragon" by Michael Cimino, "Lock Up," "Donnie Brasco," and the television series "Law & Order." The 2018 Academy Award-winning film "Green Book" is based on events from his life. Their son, Nicholas "Nick" Vallelonga, directed the film "Green Book," which tells the true story of a working-class Italian man who becomes the personal driver for a black classical pianist during the 1960s Southern music tour. The film is based on Nick's father, Dolores's husband, Frank "Tony Lip" Vallelonga. Nick holds his mother in high regard and expressed this sentiment in an article published on heavy.com: Dolores Vallelonga, Nick’s Mother. On February 17th, 1999, Dolores Veneri Vallelonga passed away in New York City, New York. She was laid to rest at the Maryrest Cemetery in Mahwah, Bergen County, New Jersey. Her headstone is inscribed with "Beloved wife and mother" as shown in the following: The gravesite of Dolores Vallelonga.
  • 06/25
    1932

    Birthday

    June 25, 1932
    Birthdate
    Emerson, Bergen County, New Jersey United States
    Birthplace
  • Ethnicity & Family History

    Dolores was Caucasian and a United States citizen of Italian descent. Both of her parents were Italian and born in Italy.
  • Nationality & Locations

    Dolores was born, raised, and spent a majority of her life living in the states of New Jersey and New York. In the 1950 federal census, Dolores was living in the Bronx. with her father Anthony Venere (age 52), mother Anna Venere (also age 52), and her brother, Louis (age 28). Dolores was 18 at the time.
  • Early Life & Education

    Dolores attended Leonia High School in Leonia, New Jersey, USA (1945).
  • Religious Beliefs

    She was Catholic and was a parishioner of the "Our Lady of Visitation Roman Catholic Church" in Paramus, New Jersey.
  • Military Service

    Dolores was not part of the military, but her husband was a Korean War Army Veteran.
  • Professional Career

    In the 1950's Delores was working in the office of a men's clothing store. Her father, Anthony was a tailor in a tailor shop. In her later years, she was a homemaker and parishioner of Our Lady of Visitation R.C. Church in Paramus, New Jersey.
  • Personal Life & Family

    On June 28th, 1958 Dolores married the (now famous) Frank "Tony Lip" Anthony Vallelonga (1930 - 2013) in Mount Vernon, New York. Together they had two sons, Frank Vallelonga Jr., and Nicholas Vallelonga. Husband, "Tony Lip" was an actor, best known for being in the movie "The Godfather" and the television show "The Sopranos". Their son, Nick, is a director, best known for the film "Green Book" which is based on a chapter of his father's life.
  • 02/17
    1999

    Death

    February 17, 1999
    Death date
    Unknown
    Cause of death
    New York, New York United States
    Death location
  • Gravesite & Burial

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    Funeral date
    Maryrest Cemetery 770 Darlington Ave, in Mahwah, Bergen County, New Jersey 07430, United States
    Burial location
  • Obituary

    Vallelonga- Dolores (nee Veneri) of Paramus, NJ. on Feb, 17, 1999. Beloved wife of Frank "Tony Lip". Devoted mother of Nicholas and Frank, Jr. Loving mother in law of Angela. Dear sister of John and Louis Veneri. Funeral Tuesday, 8:30am from Santangelo Funeral Home, 300 Main St, Lodi, NJ, then to Our Lady of Visitation R.C. Church for a 9:30am Funeral Mass. Interment Maryrest Cemetery. Visitation Sunday 7-9pm & Monday 2-4 & 7-9PM. Published Saturday February 20, 1999 in the Daily News Newspaper (New York, New York).
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4 Memories, Stories & Photos about Dolores

Dolores's Meatballs
Recipe from the book "Shut Up and Eat" co-written by her husband Tony Lip for Dolores's famous homemade Italian Meatballs:
3 pounds chopped chuck meat (You can also mix veal, pork and beef)
3 eggs
1 cup parsley, chopped really find
8 cloves garlic, chopped fine
¾ cup grated Imported Romano cheese
¾ cup grated imported Parmesan cheese
1 cup plain bread crumbs
¾ cup warm water
Olive oil, for frying.

In a bowl or on a countertop, mix together the chopped meat, eggs, parsley, garlic, cheeses and bread crumbs. Dolores's little secret when she was mixing it was to add about ½ cup of warm tap water. Next, roll the mixed meat into small balls that fit into the palm of your hand, about 2½ inches in diameter. You don't have to make them perfectly round, and you don't want to pack the meat too tightly. Then, in a frying pan, pour enough olive oil to coat the pan and heat it until it's hot. Gently place the meatballs into the frying pan, leaving a little breathing room between each one. Once the pan is full, let the meatballs brown gradually. Slowly turn them as they're browning, making sure they don't stick to the bottom of the pan. When they're done, remove them to a plate lined with paper towels, which will absorb the excess oil. Now they're ready to be added to your tomato sauce (gravy), or you can eat them as a snack just the way they are (or even make a sandwich on some nice Italian bread.) Serves 6.

Published both in the book "Shut Up and Eat" as well as the March 5, 2008 copy of the Daily Record Newspaper (Morristown, New Jersey).
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Dolores Vallelonga, Nick’s Mother
Nick Vallelonga has spoken with great love about his mother, Dolores. He said that one of the most emotional aspects of making “The Green Book” was watching Linda Cardellini, the actress who portrayed Dolores. He said, “I still cry when I see her. It was so emotional. I tell her, “Get away from me. I can’t even look at you.” Looks like my mother, young. Sounds just like my mother.” Dolores passed away in 1999.

Written in an article on heavy.com titled "Nick Vallelonga’s Family: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know" Published Jan 10, 2019.
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The wedding of Dolores Venere and Tony Vallelonga
The wedding of Dolores Venere and Tony Vallelonga
The wedding of Dolores A Venere Vallenlonga.
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The gravesite of Dolores Vallelonga
The gravesite of Dolores Vallelonga
The grave of Dolores Vallelonga in Mahwah New Jersey
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